Agreed, metwin, that's why I specified that all the people I asked were Americans. Actually, that was my point, really.

Americans are the ones who use fiance, fiancé, and fiancée interchangeably. It's far from the worst usage issue of which we are guilty. wink

Kinda makes me wonder if Lex lives in an alt-universe where he attended a British or European boarding school as a teen. huh

Do you know the most surprising thing about divorce? It doesn't actually kill you, like a bullet to the heart or a head-on car wreck. It should. When someone you've promised to cherish till death do you part says, "I never loved you," it should kill you instantly.

- Under the Tuscan Sun