OK, I'm not a Clay fan (never really heard any of his songs) but I just had to jump in with my own example.
There's this very famous song by The Police that you may have heard of. It's called "Every Breath You Take" - talk about your stalker song!
Sting refused to play it in concert for years since it's so dark. He had people come up to him after shows disappointed because he didn't play 'their' song.
Avia
(Who likes another 'stalker' Sting song much better

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