To update everyone, I'm back from the funeral. It was hard, but I found comfort in the fact that he can be with my grandmother now.
And on a lighter note, I found a use for his birthday card. We passed it around to all the immediate family to sign and write a little note. We sealed it up and put it in his casket so he could take our birthday wishes with him.
Thanks to all of you for your thoughts and prayers. It really means a lot to me.
~Kristen