Hi Mary!
I was going to reference Trusting Me, Trusting You, but I checked the story and Female Hawk didn't actually establish Lois or Trask as military.

Next I was going for The Wedding Wall, but it's nfic, so... that one's out, too. Although, the amount of n in Female Hawk's fic is rather tame.
I finally landed on
Awaken My Heart.
I did see there's an immediate Free For All. Sadly, military references aren't that easy to find. I mean, I could have randomly searched the Archive for Trask-based stories, but I wanted to do it as an actual reference

Also, between Kerth season and work...

Michael