Sheila said:

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I'm also glad the Clark recognized that he loves Lois, just that he's not in love with her. Actually, I'm not worried about that. I know that that's the big deal in romance novels, but in real life, what keeps a couple together through every up and down of life isn't being "in love"; it's loving each other.
I agree. Anyway, being in love usually has to do with wanting to make love to someone. And we know this about Clark, he finds it 'super' to make love to Lois. So he is happy to take care of her, and he loves making love to her, and he loves the children he has with her, and he generally loves her, but he doesn't consider himself to be 'in love' with her. The question is, will he come to the conclusion that he doesn't have to be 'in love' with Lois to be happy to stay with her?

Ann