Ditto to Ann on a number of points. You're not going to have the exact same feelings for one person that you do for another. Like...well some high tech gadget that picks up your feelings from the last relationship and just goes, "Boop Boop Boop Boop Beeeep!" and drops them into the next one.
I hate to say that I'm in the divorce camp, too, but it's just not healthy relationship if you're not ever on the same page with someone else. They're probably not even in the same volume by the same author. :p Cut your losses and get out. Maybe try again later if you can show that you've grown *ahem Clark ahem* and that you're ok with what the other person is willing to give *ahem Lois ahem*.
Great parts, looking forward to the Cow in the previews,
JD
ETA: Hasn't anyone bothered to tell Clark that LIFE is what happens when you're busy making other plans? I think my new bothersome is that, well, I'm sure we'd all like to think that we try and make the best of any situation. Have we truly seen that from Clark?