Thanks for the good wishes, everyone! Sorry I haven't been around so much, but my mom was visiting... I did read the thread, though, and appreciated every message
But the one coming up (on the Jewish calendar) this Saturday should be far more restful, as it won't be spent cleaning for Passover.
Do you know the most surprising thing about divorce? It doesn't actually kill you, like a bullet to the heart or a head-on car wreck. It should. When someone you've promised to cherish till death do you part says, "I never loved you," it should kill you instantly.