ok, I am caught up.
whoo, glad we got the big ugly talk out of the way. Telling Lois about being an alien should be a snap.
Now, here is the kicker. Should Clark just tell Lois? If he does, then he has committed his first conscious sin against Lana. He's known her all his life. He owes it to her to tell her first, before Lois. Of course he should tell Lois immediately afterward.
I don't know if telling them simulatiously would be a good thing or not, but it would mean only having to tell it once.
And...if Lois takes it better than Lana, even better.
James