I love it that Lois is thinking how to win Clark back. But blaming Clark so much as being the immature one -- I don't think that's quite fair, as Lois should know by now how much her tears affect him, and he has always blamed himself for making her cry. Frankly, I don't understand why it doesn't occur to her that she should explain why she started crying after they had just made love, which is the biggest thing that sent Clark on this mission to make Lois happy, of course thinking that the only thing that will is being able to have a baby. He's not thinking straight because he's so distraught over this. When we get so emotionally involved in things, it's so easy to lose our perspective and keep blaming ourselves. He's such a good person that he's taking the rap for making Lois miserable, and still can't see the forest for the trees, but he's totally working off his emotions. But Lois at least is taking good steps to get his attention and taking the time to talk to him more, get him talking about little things that should lead to talking more about the big things in their way.
He's such a sweetie with so much love and feeling so desperate to make everything better for Lois. Sometimes I feel so bad about something that happened with my own sweetheart that I have blamed myself heavily, later to learn it wasn't that bad or much of a problem and it wasn't really my fault. I guess I relate to him; guess I should join the lunkhead club too then.
