Umm...nono, nobody ever said anything about abstinence. They're just not allowed to embrace romantic love and the attachment that comes with it. Ain't nobody ever said nothin' about boinking the brains out of their groupies in between peace negotiations.
Yeah, I didn't make it that far in the books. Last I read Luke thought abstinance was the way to go, and with all those ghosties following him around (including his dad) I can see why.
So did Tim Zahn

That bad, huh?